Right then, lads… let me speak to you plainly, straight up and with complete honesty. Today I’m bringing up a topic I’ve been really keen to discuss.
I wanted to share this with you because you’re the ones who really understand me, and I thought it was really important that we talked about it.
I have 20 years’ experience and practical knowledge in this business.
I’ve seen it all; I know this world inside out. And based on my entire career, I see a confusion that arises all too often. What strikes me isn’t that they’re looking for an erotic service – that’s perfectly normal.
What I really see in my DAY-TO-DAY LIFE is a great need for affection: men who come looking for genuine passion, real kisses, love and, above all, a deep need for a woman to show them tenderness and share a close bond as a couple.
They are looking for what is known in this industry as a GFE (Girlfriend Experience): that illusion of a genuine longing of the soul and a true romance.
And when that illusion ends, and they don’t get what they’re looking for — a kiss, sex or whatever — they walk away frustrated. They walk away frustrated, saying the girl was cold. But let’s not portray the girls as victims; often, they decide whether or not to give the client what he asks for. The problem is that FEMALE SEXUALITY works *DIFFERENTLY* to male sexuality, and if a woman cannot honestly give a man what he is looking for, she often chooses to pretend so as not to lose the client. That’s where the ‘scam’ begins: when she deceives him and the client feels let down.
Over the years, this behaviour breeds a sense of rejection and bitterness towards men. This pushes them down a much darker path: not only do they start cheating, but they go on to commit unacceptable acts such as writing to clients’ wives, making threats or even stealing money. It is a cycle of degradation where a lack of honesty turns into pure malice. That is why, before a man complains about being ‘scammed’, he should ask himself: what am I really looking for, and where am I heading? Sometimes, we look in the wrong place for an emotional connection that isn’t for sale. Money can pay for the best atmosphere and the best technique, but it cannot fabricate the truth of a feeling.
And I’m telling you this because I, too, was once in that position, back when I didn’t fully understand the dynamics of this world. The landladies of the flats where I worked taught us from day one to please in every way, to pretend we felt that passion for the client. And I succumbed to the weight of that pressure. The result? I fell into the depths of severe depression.
Maintaining a persona that feigns love and constant devotion is mentally exhausting. Over the years, things got worse, and I had to seek outside help because I felt like I was falling apart inside.
In this line of work, sadly, many young women suffer a great deal of wear and tear; they feel under pressure and are not always able to escape that trap, ending up developing bad habits just to be able to maintain the ‘lovestruck’ and affectionate persona that is demanded of them. But, thank God, I was very strong and always chose the truth. I sought answers, I studied, I developed my own approach over the decades and managed to break free from it all.
That is why today, with the authority that my 20 years’ experience give me, I want to speak openly. Not out of reproach – because I know full well that I have wonderful clients who understand this art – but out of a desire to offer them the very best of myself.
In my space, I choose to prioritise authenticity: I prefer not to feign a passion or tenderness between partners that wouldn’t be genuine. My wellbeing and yours deserve something more honest.
If what you’re looking for is the illusion of a fake girlfriend, there are other places; but if you’re seeking a more refined experience, here I offer you something different:
* I am a sophisticated and confident woman. I am fully aware of the power of my curves, my magnetism and all the wisdom I have gained in this business over so many years.
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